Monday, January 13, 2014

Books Read and Listened to in 2014



Number. Name of Book
Author:
Read or Listened?
Fiction or NonFiction?
Description and comments:

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1. Fire and Ice
Author: Dana Stabenow
eBook
Fiction
Description and comments:
A new trooper arrives in a small Alaska town right to a murder at the airport.  He spends time getting to know the locals and trying to solve the crime.  In the middle of this, a woman he has a passionate affair lives in town and is part of the group of suspects. 

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2. The Case of the Flashing Fashion Queen: A Dix Dodd Mystery
Author: N.L. Wilson
eBook
Fiction
Description and comments:
A woman who runs her own detective agency is hired to follow a man whose wife ends up murdered.  It was light and funny and good characters.  It was very easy to read. 

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3. Happiness
Author: Will Ferguson
Book
Fiction
Description and comments:
An editor publishes a self-help book that makes everyone happy and the whole world changes.  Its kind of a silly book.  Very tongue in cheek and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't

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4. 11/22/63
Author: Stephen King
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
A man is shown a portal back to 1958.  He is convinced to go back and save Kennedy from being assassinated in 1963.  Lots of good detail about the era and about time travel.  It's Stephen King so I couldn't wait to return to it.

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5. Loose Screw
Author: Rae Daview
iBook
Fiction
Description and comments:
Helena, Montana.  A former reporter, now second-hand store owner finds a dead body and figures out who did it.  Very predictable, but the main character was fun.  Light, easy read

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6. The Apple Orchard
Author: Susan Wiggs
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
A 29-year-old antiquities expert who thinks her only family is her mother finds out that her grandfather is dying, she has a sister and she will inherit half of the family farm.  While she goes from her fast-paced (Red Bull and donuts) San Francisco life to rural farm life, she falls in love with the local banker and find a very rare treasure to save the farm from foreclosure.  I think I need something with more depth.

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7. Comfort Food
Author: Kate Jacobs
Book
Fiction
Description and comments:
A 50-year-old Cooking Channel celebrity must team up with a Spanish beauty show winner to keep her show alive and resents it.  There were a lot of characters, but they were all pretty one-sided.  The book kept me interested, but it really wasn't that good.

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8. A Passage to India
Author: EM Forester
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
Takes place during the 20s when England ruled India.  The story is about the culture clash between the English and Indians.  

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9. The Invention of Wings
Author: Sue Monk Kidd
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
Told from a white and black point of view during the 1830s.  A girl and her slave. It felt that the white girl wanted to promote abolition, but didn't seem to help her slave very much except at the end.

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10. The Night Journal
Author: Elizabeth Crook
book
Fiction
Description and comments:
Two stories.  One of a woman who comes to work in New Mexico at the turn of the century and her great-grandaughter in present day.  The older woman's journals have created the life for her daughter, but there is more going on than the journals reveal.  

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11. The Divorce Papers
Author: Susan Rieger
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
All the minutia of a divorce told through the paperwork, memos and emails of all the characters.  Lots of numbers and kid of difficult to get through.

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12. Fame Fatale
Author: Wendy Holden
book
Fiction
Description and comments:
Two women in London.  One works in publishing and tries to be a good person, but seems to keep getting things wrong especially about the men in her life.  The second a "journalist" doing celebrity journalism to find a rich husband and clearly terrible at her job, although she thinks she deserves awards.  All the characters seem to share the same cleaning lady.  A beach read and very predictable.

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13. The Secret of Everything
Author: Barbara O'Neal
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
The reader of this book almost made me put it down.  I did get used to it.  A woman returns to a small newly trendy New Mexico town to research a hiking tour.  She had been born in the town at the commune years ago. Along the book, she falls in love with a former mountain-biker and his kids, finds out about her past and her father.  Another book where everyone seems to know each other.  There is a cafe in town and recipes included that sounded really good.

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14. Balancing Acts
Author: Zoe Fishman
book
Fiction
Description and comments:
Four women meet back up 10 years after leaving college.  One owns a yoga studio and suggests a yoga class for the women to reconnect.  Yoga opens them up and they become friends as they are dealing with how their lives have changed in the years leaving college.  Its predictable and a happy ending book.

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15. The Profiler's Daughter
Author:P. M. Steffen
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
I think this is the first book in a series about Sky Stone. There were a lot of story threads going on and some just didn't get resolved or go anywhere.  Lots of name-dropping of designers.  Too many coincidences with evidence.  I don't have a desire to read another in this series.

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16. How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big: Kind of the Story of My Life
Author: Scott Adams
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:
Scott Adams is the very sucessful author of the Dilbert Cartoons.  He has a lot of ideas about how he got sucessful and how it can be mimicked.  Some of it seemed pretty forced and lecture-y.  However the parts that were the memoir were interesting.  He credits luck, optimism and affirmations on his success.  He has failed at a number of ventures, but comes out with more knowledge for the next time.

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17. Wives Behaving Badly
Author: Elizabeth Buchan
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A second wife lives in the house of the first wife and feels her influence in the marriage and the home.  An interesting idea, but I never got very invested in the characters. 

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18. The Goldfinch
Author: Donna Tartt
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments: 
A man loses his mother in a terrorist bombing at 13 in a museum.  On the way out, he steals the painting "The Goldfinch" that his mother loved.  The book describes his growing up and the people around him.   I thought that this book was very depressing.  Despite some adults trying to help him, he grew up to be a drug-addict and swindler pining for a girl he had seen and fell in love with at the museum at 13.  There were too many drug or alcohol-altered scenes.  There seemed to be a lot of contempt for people trying to help him whether they were good or manipulative.  

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19. Gracelin O'Malley
Author: Ann Moore
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
Grace is a farmer's daughter in Ireland in the 1840s.  She marries the evil English Lord who owns their farm.  It was an interesting book about the Irish Potato famine and the English as the conquerers of Ireland and the conflicts for independence.  I didn't know this history as I should have. There was a lot of death in this novel. 


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20. Ranger Confidential
Author: Andrea Lankford
audiobook
Nonfiction
Description and comments:  
A memoir of a woman who worked for the Park Service in parks like the Grand Canyon and Yosemite.  It depicts several park rangers and gives their stories in the parks.  I kept getting confused by who was at what park.  It had some interesting insights about being the police in a family-oriented system.  

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21. The Little Death
Author: P.J. Parrish
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A mystery novel about a man who is a "walker" (escort for older, rich women) in an expensive part of Florida who is accused of killing and beheading his friend.  The detectives are two men, but it was unclear how they worked together.  A third man joined them and I missed how he got involved.  The ending was really unsatisfactory.

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22. The Wizard of Menlo Park: How Thomas Alva Edison Invented the Modern World
Author: Randell E. Stross
audiobook
Nonfiction
Description and comments:  
The life and times of Thomas Edison.  He started out inventing improvements for the telegraph and moved forward from there.  He was so highly regarded that reporters did not question is claims and assertions.  The phonograph took many years from invention to commercial success.  He believed in DC current, not AC.  He thought that radio was a fad and wouldn't sell popular music when he sold recordings.  Very opinionated.

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23. Remember Me
Author: Cheryl Robinson
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
The story of two women who grow up in the Detroit suburbs as best friends and go their separate ways after college, but end up getting back together later in life after a near tragedy.  It was light, easy and predictable. 

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24. Rose Under Fire
Author: Elizabeth Wein
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A young American woman pilot during WWII flies for the ATA in England.  She gets the chance to go to France.  She mistakenly flies into Germany and is imprisoned in a concentration camp.  Its a good story told from a female point of view.

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25. Crisis
Author: Robin Cook
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
An older woman dies under a doctor's care in Boston and the doctor is charged with malpractice.  The doctor's brother-in-law is a medical examiner in New York City and goes to the trial.  He autopsies the body and finds some discrepancies.  There is a good twist at the end, but there are also unanswered questions.  A subplot about the medical examiner's wedding and previous marriage are just a little too much.  The doctor is never portrayed very sympathetically in the book.

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26. The Cuckoo Calling
Author: Robert Galbraith
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A famous fashion model falls to her death and is pronounced suicide.  Her brother believes that she was killed.  He hires a detective who is just about out of business to look into the murder.  The detective is the illegitimate son of a famous musician and groupie. The detective's new secretary loves the work, but is being pressured by her fiance to take a practical job. Another book with lingering questions in the end, but a good thriller.

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27. Me without You
Author:Jojo Moyes
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A 28-year-old girl in England gets a job care-taking for a quadriplegic for six months.  She has never done that kind of work before.  She also is stuck in her life about what she wants to do and has been dating the same man for 7 years.  The story is very predictable, but the characters are well done.  There is a side story about the relationship between two sisters and it is portrayed well.

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28. Big Little Lies
Author:Liane Moriarty
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  
Set in a small seaside town in Australia, this is the story of the parents in a kindergarten class.  The book tells you there was a murder at the school adult trivia night and then goes back six months and introduces all the characters and what led up to the trivia night.  There are three main women.  A 24-year-old who has just moved there with her son, a very wealthy insecure woman with twins and a 40-year-old woman whose ex-husband's child is in the class.  The characters are well done and distinct.  There is a little predictability to the story, but it made me want to keep reading. 

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Author: Mark Mathabane
book
Memoir
Description and comments:  
A boy grows up in the Johannesburg ghetto of Alexandra, starving in hovels with his parents.  He fights to go to school.  Along the way, he meets enough liberal whites to help him and give him books and coach him in tennis.  His goal is to get a scholarship to study in America and get away from apartheid in his home country.  It is a very good book.

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 30Etiquette and Espionage
Author: Gail Carriger
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A girls finishing school in the 1800's England teaches espionage techniques instead of traditional subjects.  Unfortunately the school floats above the moors and there are vampires, werewolves and robots.  Its a bad Harry Potter knockoff for girls.  I was glad when it was over because it just didn't involve me.

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Author: Amanda Coplin
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments:  A lonely man on an Oregon orchard finds pregnant girls and helps them out.  One has her baby and dies.  The other loses her twins but lives.   She is broken.  The man raises the child.

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Author: Jon Katz
audiobook
memoir
Description and comments: 
A married man falls in love with a married woman who has a dog that is very viscous.  He trains the dog to win her over and researches the dog's past.  Its kind of maudlin and he does come off sounding very curmudgeonly.  His undying love for the woman gets pretty old.  

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 33Olive Kitteridge
Author: Elizabeth Strout
book
Fiction
Description and comments:  
A book about a woman told in short stories about other people in town.  Some of the stories are about the woman. 


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 34. Lock In
Author:John Scalzi
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments: 
A futuristic story about the aftermath of an epidemic that leaves many people stuck inside their own bodies, using robots and other humans to be their bodies for them. Murders occur and people have to figure out what happened.  It was good, but it did seem pretty short

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 35.  Behaving Like Adults
Author:  Anna Maxted
book
Fiction
Description and comments: 
A twenty-something woman runs a dating company and is a pretty positive person until she is raped.  She is raped by someone she is on a date with and doesn't even call it rape or tell anyone for a long time.  She tries to get beyond it through will, but her life starts to crumble around her.  She files a police report, starts counseling and starts getting her life back together.   In the beginning of the book, she had broken up with her fiance because he was a slacker, but in the end they get back together.  I thought the character was a selfish, unmotivated person she should not have ended up with.


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 36.  Cryptonomicon
Author: Neal Stephenson
audiobook
Fiction

Description and comments: 
Very long book going between cryptography during World War II and the present day.  The present day being the 1990s when this was written.  I found this book incredibly misogynistic.  Every single woman character was not smart.  The one woman that was throughout the book was portrayed as strong and therefore might be lesbian, but then she was a virgin for the main character to deflower.  I completely lost track of what was supposed to be going on in the present day and by the end really didn't care at all.  There was a dentist involved that I never understood.  


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 37. The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion
Author:  Fannie Flagg
audiobook
Fiction

Description and comments: 
A welcome change from the previous book. A sixty year old woman finds out that she was adopted and instead of being a Southern Woman, she is descended from a Polish family in Wisconsin.  This book goes back to World War II as well, but is about women pilots (WASPs). The characters in present-day, except for the main character, are one-dimensional.  The woman has a crazy mother that, at the beginning of the book, she is taking care of constantly, but when she gets the news of her adoption, falls out of the book.  The 40's era is better drawn and the main character, Fritzie is very enjoyable.

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 38. The Paying Guests
Author:  Sarah Waters
audiobook
Fiction

Description and comments: 
This book is set after World War I in London.  The main character, Francis, and her mother must take in boarders to keep up their home after the husband/father died without properly providing for his family.  They cannot keep up their home anymore.  They no longer have servants and Francis must do all the cooking and cleaning. The book touches on the English class system and how trapped women are for opportunities and work.  Francis befriends the "paying guests" and things do not end well.

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 39. The Girls of Atomic City: The Untold Story of the Women Who Helped Win World War II
Author:  Denise Kiernan
book
Nonfiction

Description and comments: 
The city of Oak Ridge, Tennessee was created during World War II to purify components for the atomic bomb.  It was a very secret project, but it needed a very large number of people to do it. An entire town was created to do the work.  Since many men were serving in the war, this left women at home to do the jobs.   The women weren't told what they were doing except that it was secret work.  This book follows several women, including one black woman, who worked at Oak Ridge during the war.  There are also side stories about women scientists who contributed to the bomb project.


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40. This Must Be the Place
Author:  Kate Raccula
book
fiction
Description and comments: 
A man's wife dies in Los Angelos and he is devastated, but finds a box of stuff she has including an old postcard that seems to leave everything to a childhood friend.  He seeks out and finds her in upstate New York and begins to learn all about his wife. The friend owns a boarding house and he stays with her and gets to know her daughter.  The book was okay, but I didn't really like a lot of the characters and there seemed to be a lot of holes in the story.  How could he know nothing about his wife's past? 


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41. Leaving Time
Author:  Jodi Picoult
audiobook
Fiction
Description and comments: 
A girl is trying to find out what happened when her mother disappeared 10 years ago.  She enlists the help of a psychic and the former detective.  The mother and father were elephant researchers and the book jumps around in time and with different voices.  There is an unexpected twist at the end that I thought made the book unpleasant. 

Monday, October 14, 2013

Family Camping Weekend

Camping Weekend


You didn't want to go
I planned the trip.
Made the reservation

You didn't want to go.
I planned the meals.
Bought the food.

You didn't want to go.
Stay home. Stay warm
Play video games

You didn't know or care where it was.
Too far away
Too cold.

You didn't want to go
I got out the equipment.
I checked the weather.
Packed the car.

You didn't want to go
I waited for you. And waited.
We didn't leave very late.

You didn't want to go.
It would be miserable.
It would be cold.

You thought it was beautiful.
You had a good time.
You apologized.

I am exhausted.
I don't want to beg people to travel with me.

I put away the food.
Cleaned the dished.
You played video games and rested.

I don't want to
travel with you
anymore. 

I want to go with someone
who wants to be with me. 

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Spring running


April 25, 2013


I went running this morning.  It was a beautiful morning.  I started just before sunrise and the temperature was just below freezing.  When the sun came up, the sky was that magical baby blue and with the clouds forming pink streaks we get sometimes.  I felt good and strong and my run was going well.

Toward the end of my run, I was on a trail.  A man running a little ways in front of me, stopped, turned around and was watching me.  It wasn't menacing at all.  I thought he must have mistaken me for a friend.  When I approached him,  he would realize that  I wasn't his friend. 

As I got closer, he held up his phone and  asked if he could interrupt my run so that I could take a picture of him.  As soon as he talked, I knew he "wasn't from around here".  He said he was from New York.  Yep, thats what it sounded like.  A raspy, eastern accent.  I took a few pictures of him and gave him back his phone. I wished him a good day and continued on the last few minutes of my run.  

I wanted to tell him that the views got even better if he went my direction, but he had turned around and headed away from me.

Monday, April 8, 2013

What is it with these women?





My husband plays co-ed softball.  At one of his last games, he ran into a woman we had known as part of a family from our kids' grade school days.  Our children stopped playing together and we stopped doing stuff with them.  When he ran into Dianna, he asked about her family and she let him know that she and her husband were divorcing. 

He related the story to me when he got home.  "What is it with these women?", he asked me exasperated.  He meant that they get to around 50 and they divorce their husbands. 

I could have told him in so much detail.  We get tired of being the ones doing it all.  Working, cleaning, exercising while they tell us how busy they are.  And give us advice on how to do things. My husband thinks he is one of the enlightened ones who does his share around the house. Maybe I do a little more.

One weekend, we had a snowstorm, so the three of us were stuck at home.  I cleaned the kitchen and put a soup in the crock pot for dinner.  I asked my husband to do some vacuuming.  He said he would.  I cleaned the bathroom and changed the sheets on the bed when he finally got out of it.  I asked him again (trying for kindness, not nagging) if he could vacuum. Sometimes he forgets or doesn't hear things I say.   He said yes.  Snow had piled up outside so I got dressed and shoveled off the 40 steps leading to the house.  When I got inside, I got out the vacuum cleaner.  My husband finally decided it was time to vacuum.  I made dinner, including homemade soda bread and we sat down for it.  I cleaned up the kitchen afterward.

I would like to say that this was an isolated incident, but it happens every weekend. 
My husband used to tell me that he was too busy with work to help around the house more.  That somehow didn't stop him from taking breaks to play video games for hours and watch TV for more hours.  I now work at his same company (with the same job title) so I know that he is not busy. He doesn't use that excuse anymore.

Yesterday was another example.  By the time, my husband rolled out of bed, I had cleaned the kitchen, the floor and the main bathroom including the cat litter pan.  Vacuuming never got done.  Later in the day, I went to the grocery store alone (as usual)  with a list of items that he and my son demanded.  They "helped" me get the seven bags up the 40 steps to the house, but my husband disappeared as soon as that was done.  My son helped put things away and nibble.  Then I started dinner.  Alone.  My husband and son had ordered me to get fish for them so I put that in the oven for them as well.  My husband stayed in the kitchen long enough to tell me what pan I should be using to make dinner.  They were "busy" in another part of the house.  I finished making dinner, starting the dishwasher, and tidying up dishes.  No one came back to the kitchen.  I ate my dinner alone and put away my leftovers.  When I went to my room, furious, my son looked up from his computer and asked if dinner was ready.  I didn't say anything. Since the dishes were clean in the dishwasher, they stacked theirs next to it. They had to get to their current TV show and left the dishes for me to do when I get home from work tonight.

What woman wouldn't want that life?  What is it with these women leaving their husbands?

Monday, March 11, 2013

Dancing



I want to be with someone 
who will dance
and sing 
with abandon
and joy
in the kitchen

Thursday, March 7, 2013

The Responsible One



I've always been the responsible, organized one who didn't cause a lot of waves.  I take care of people.  And I feel that I have been kicked in the teeth for it.

When I was young and my mother drank, I poured her drinks.  "My poor mother" needed help and I should give it to her.  I tried to be a good daughter. When I was older, I made dinners when my father traveled and my mother didn't feel the need to stop drinking to make a proper dinner.  She tried to bullshit me about what a good cook I was.  I just felt like I had to take care of myself because no one would take care of me.

Now, when I visit my mother, I can see the disgust for me in her eyes.  She doesn't like that I am competent,  responsible and organized. Because I am not fun.  But I am still expected to help her at every turn, whether it is driving her around, opening doors, holding her purse, or letting her lean on my arm when she flaps her hands at me.

Now, 30 years later, I am married with a son.  I do most of the housework, all of the cooking, grocery shopping, laundry and those mundane chores around the house that my husband and child "have no time" to do like feeding the cat and cleaning the litter or taking months of accumulated recycling out of the house. I cook good dinners and get told that its just okay. I then clean up the kitchen afterward because they are too busy to help and walk out of the room as I talk.

When I do something fun, my husband and son don't want to do it with me, although that is not what they will say, but they always seem to have a ready excuse.   I rarely get asked about the things I did and instead get asked whats for dinner or if I did the grocery shopping.  If I do an event with a friend that my husband doesn't approve of (a male friend), he just gets scornful.

I want someone to take care of me for a change. I want to come home to a clean house, a good meal, flowers on the table, and someone who wants to sit and hear what I have to say or even do things with me.  Seems simple, but so far from what I have.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

New Year: Happiness Experiment


3 January 2013


In 2012, I decided that I battle depression.  I read an article on CNN about a woman that determined that she was depressed and so many of her examples seemed like things that I deal with.


There are too many days when I wake up sad and go through the entire day that way with very few things that cheer me up.  Some days, I cry through a lot of the day.

I don’t want medication. There have been few studies that show that medication actually works better than a placebo.  I don’t think I have chronic depression.  I don’t stay in bed all day or miss work or parts of life due to depression.  I’m just sad and angry too much of the time. I generally get past the worst sadness in a day or so. 

I was comfort eating for a long time ( I was binging), but I made the choice to stop eating added sugar and the binging has subsided and the self-hatred due to the binging is gone too.

For 2013, I am going to make the choice to be happy. 

I am lucky.  I have had times when I feel utterly at peace with who I am and with my place in the world.  This generally happens on a bike ride, a run or a hike.  That is when I know what ultimate happiness feels like.   I can return to those feelings when I need to.  I also can often find those feelings when I need to. I am also happy being social.  Just being around people improves my mood. 


One of my friends posted a meme on Facebook that said “Be someone that makes you happy”.  I think that may be the key to my happiness.  In December, I flew to Tucson for a half-marathon.  During that entire weekend, I was happy because the person that I felt like was a care-free adventurer, a strong woman that could run 13 miles in the desert and hang out with friends in the sunshine by the pool drinking margaritas afterwards.  When I returned home, I was late picking up my son after school.  It was cold and dark. We were both mad at each other.  Right then, the person I felt like I was was a poor excuse for a mother.  I felt like nothing more than his chauffeur and maid.  I don’t like being the maid. The happy adventurer was gone.  I started crying.


My marriage isn’t good.  But I am not defined by my marriage. I am me and I have to find my own happiness.  Perhaps in doing so, my marriage might improve. 

I don’t necessarily know how to choose to be happy.  But I can try to be grateful for who I am and what I have.  I can work on seeing myself as successful instead of failure.  I can recognize times when  I struggle with how I see myself and just work on little things that will get me past them.  I can make sure that I take care of and be kind to myself.  I can recognize the big and little things that make me happy or at least contented.

Let the happiness experiment begin!

Books Read and Listened to in 2013


I read or listened to 39 books in 2012.  What will 2013 bring?  The format I used last year was a table which turned out to be very difficult to add to.  This year, I will be using a free-form format and counting along the way.  I've created a template to use to keep track.


Number. Name of Book
Author:
Read or Listened?
Fiction or NonFiction?
Description and comments:

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1. Girl Gone
Author: Gillian Flynn
Listened
Fiction
Description and comments:
A woman is missing and it looks like her husband is to blame. The story is told both by the husband and wife.  Unfortunately, neither one is a very good person. It's a mystery, but there are too many obvious holes and the ending is deeply unsatisfying.

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2. Cigarette Girl
Author: Carol Wolper
Read (iBook)
Fiction
Description and comments:
A 20-something screenwriter in Los Angeles and her life around her work and the business. The main character comes off smart and examples of her screenwriting are through the book. It was light, too much love and sex but satisfying.

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3. Eat and Run: My Unlikely Journey to Ultramarathon Greatness
Author: Scott Jurek and Steve Friedman
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Nonfiction
Description and comments:
Scott Jurek is a champion ultra-runner and a vegan.  Many people have said that he could not run long distances on plant material alone, but he proved them wrong. The book is interesting, but there is very little about his marriage.  He always seems to be running with his male friends. It's not even clear if his wife even runs or goes to any races with him.  This makes sense in the middle of the book when his wife divorces him.  His relationship with his father never seems to develop either.  He was kicked out of the house in college and it seems like he never reconnected with his father.  In the audio version, the reader reads the recipes in the book which is REALLY BORING.

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4. The Worst Hard Time: The Untold Story of Those Who Survived the Great American Dust Bowl
Author: Timothy Egan
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Nonfiction
Description and comments:
A history of the region of the country now known as the Dust Bowl and how the people survived years of drought and no crops in the Oklahoma-Texas-Colorado area during the Depression.  I would recommend it.

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5. Fall of Giants: Book One of the Century Trilogy
Author: Ken Follett
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Very long book about the early 1900s and World War I in Russia, England and the United States.  All the characters interact in the book.  With a book with so many characters, there are some that just seem to get focus and then disappear.  I learned things about that era in Russia and the Bolshevik revolution and woman's suffrage in England. I probably won't read the next one very soon. 


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6. More than You Know
Author: Penny Vincenzi
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:

The book starts in 1958 with the main character a headstrong girl who becomes a "career girl" before marrying and starting a family with a man who is opposed to women working outside the home which she acquiesces to until she doesn't.  There are side stories of other woman, other career girls, an Italian countess and the main character's brother.  The main story just seemed to be a lot of miscommunication and noncommunicable between the characters until they divorced.  

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7. The Tie that Binds
Author: Kent Haruf
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
An extremely dysfunctional two generation family in the Colorado plains farm town of Holt.  I like Kent Haruf because his characters are often kind and against stereotype.  This book was just mean and bitter.



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8. Maybe This Time
Author: Jennifer Cruisie
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments: A beach read.  Predictable, but some parts of the story is unexpected.  Good and diverse characters. This is the second book by this author that I have read this year. 



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9. Without Reservations
Author: Alice Steinbach
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? NonFiction - travel memoir
Description and comments:
A 50ish woman and reporter takes a sabbatical and goes to Europe by herself. She goes to Paris, London, Italy and meets people along the way.  Its a really good book about travelling by ones self and how to enjoy being with people.

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10. The Casual Vacancy
Author: JK Rowley
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
The lives of a small English town and various people in it after a citizen died and left a "casual vacancy" on the parish council.

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11. 14
Author: Peter Clines
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A man moves into a cheap LA apartment building, starts meeting the neighbors, and notices some strange things going on in the building.  It was good and light with fun characters and unexpected twists.

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12. Orphan Train
Author: Christina Baker Kline 
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Dual stories about a modern-day girl in the foster care system and an Irish girl who was put on the orphan trains from New York City to be adopted in the midwest.  Some predictableness, but it was good historical fiction.

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13. Calculated in Death
Author: J.D. Robb
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Futuristic detective story.  Very light and easy to listen to.  A perfect light novel.  I believe this book was the middle of the series.

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14. Star Island
Author: Carl Hiassen 
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A drugged-out pop singer in Florida with her enabling entourage including a double that gets kidnapped by a paparazzo.  Hiassen's great odd ball characters, but they were a little too over the top in this novel.

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15. NOS 4A2
Author: Joe Hill
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A haunted bridge, a haunted car, missing children and a girl/woman who can find things.  Very dark and ugly.  I don't think I would recommend this book.

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16. The Red Tent
Author: Anita Diamant 
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Fictional story of biblical story of Dinah, daughter of Jacob.  It took me so long to read that I just didn't get into it.


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17. The Winter Sea
Author: Susanna Kearsley 
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A woman who writes historical fiction goes to her ancestral Scottish lands and finds that instead of fiction, she has the memories of her ancestor.  This is two books in one.  Good history, but overall kind of a boring book.

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18. The Painted Veil
Author: W. Somerset Maugham
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Short, but really well written.  It was never quite clear where the book was headed even at the very end.  Its been a few years since I have read Somerset Maugham, but I will have to read more. 

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19. American Prometheus: The Triumph and Tragedy of J. Robert Oppenheimer
Author: Kai Bird, Martin J. Sherwin
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? nonfiction
Description and comments:
Probably a little long, but it was amazing how Oppenheimer grew up and evolved over time.  The number of famous people he encountered was incredible.  Lots of sadness and drama in his life caused by Hoover and others during the red scare.

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20. How to Bake a Perfect Life
Author: Barbara O'Neal
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Really light book about a woman who owns a bakery, her pregnant daughter, her daughter's stepdaughter and her family.  The woman bakes bread so there are sides about how to make bread and how making bread is therapeutic. The characters were all too nice and kind of one-dimensional. It was very predictable.  I liked it as a light read, but I wouldn't recommend it.

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21. The Glass Castle
Author: Jeanette Wells
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Non-fiction, memoir
Description and comments:
Very powerful book about a girl growing up with two self-centered parents who couldn't seem to be bothered to earn money and put food on the table.  She had to go through garbage cans to get food to eat. She and her siblings got out as soon as they could, but their parents followed them.  Her mother, especially, seemed all about being an artist that couldn't see that her children were starving and she could do something about it. 

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22. The Book Thief
Author: Markus Zusak
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A book narrated by the devil set in Germany during World War II.  I think it is a "young adult" novel, but it reads well.  Descriptions are beautiful.  The reader really makes it.  A girl is left by her mother in the care of foster parents just before the war starts.  And these are coarse, but good-hearted foster parents who genuinely love her and take care of her.

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23. Strength in What Remains
Author: Tracy Kidder
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Nonfiction
Description and comments:
A book about an African, Burundi immigrant to New York City and how he meets people, makes a life and finishes college and medical school.  The book goes into the civil war and the history of Burundi and the differences between Tutsi and Hutu clans.

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24. Justice Hall
Author: Laurie R. King
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Sherlock Holmes and his wife investigate a very wealthy family and who should inherit the estate.  Also involved is a court-martial and execution in World War I.

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25. S is For Silence
Author: Sue Grafton
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Good and light mystery novel.  Time shifted back and forth on a cold case.

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26. Night Work
Author: Laurie R. King
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Lesbian mystery novel set in modern-day San Francisco.  There are sub-pieces about a biblical play and a feminist godess thesis that I just had to skip over.  By the end there were so many characters I had trouble keeping track of them all.

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27. Lit
Author: Mary Karr
Read or Listened? Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Memoir
Description and comments:
Her third memoir.  This one is the account of her as an adult getting married, having a child and a really big drinking problem.  She stops drinking, begins AA as her lifestyle and converts to Catholicism. And she makes a lot of money with her first book.  Her husband really seemed to be out of the picture during most of the marriage.  Was she protecting him or was their marriage that poor?  The book made me mad, but also hit some personal notes along the way as well.

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28. The Girl Who Kicked the Hornets Nest
Author: Stieg Larsson
Read or Listened? : Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Third in the "Girl with the Dragon Tattoo" series.  Its been a while since I listened to the last one and it was difficult remembering the characters.  This one had a whole bunch of new characters too.  It was good and had good twists and turns and the courtroom scenes were very good.

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29. Code Name Verity
Author: Elizabeth Wein 
Read or Listened? : Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments: Two girls in their 20's in England during World War II.  One is a pilot, the other a spy.  They meet, become best friends and one is captured and tortured in France.  The story is told from both points of view.  It may be "young adult", but it is a good novel about women making it on their own terms.

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30. Where'd you Go Bernadette ?
Author: Maria Semple
Read or Listened? : Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A woman who we later learn was a genius architect goes a little crazy raising a child in Seattle while her husband is a Microsoft genius.  She escapes on a cruise to Antarctica.  The story is told through emails and from the point of view of the 15-year-old daughter.  Very quick read, but interesting plot twists.

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31. Snow White Must Die
Author: Nele Neuhaus
Read or Listened?  Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments: 
Set in a German town (book was translated) after a man who was convicted of murder 10 years before gets out of prison.  The whole town is turned upside down.  Secrets come out.  There are many characters and you learn the life story of many of them.  It gets confusing at first, but at the end is very satisfying.


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32. Vertical Burn
Author: Earl Emerson
Read or Listened?  Read
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
A good firefighter seems to have bad luck and two partners die.  This is definitely a mans book.  It was good light reading, but I am not sure I will read another by this author soon.

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33. The Light Between Oceans
Author: M.L. Stedman
Read or Listened? Listened
Fiction or NonFiction? Fiction
Description and comments:
Australian book set after World War I.  A war vet gets a job as a lighthouse keeper on a desolate island off Australia.  He marries, but his wife is unable to have children.  A boat washes up one day with a dead man and a small baby.